I will, will you?

Most of the time, most people are fairly decent. Even the worst ones who do the worst things have regular stuff that they do that doesn't require them to be anything other than ordinary.
But in my experience the one occurrence that can bring out the worst in people is a will.
Family members get very reptilian very quickly when the inheritance is getting sorted.
Mean and nasty calls and messages all slash and burn and Mammy never liked you anyway!
There's a saying "How they treat you when it ends? That's who they really were all along. You just didn't know".
This is the other time that people get to show their real faces. 
In a breakup or at the end of any relationship things get very real very quickly.
Sometimes you can't even recognise the person.
I have a policy. No matter how wrong or how offensive someone is to me, if I'm at the end of the relationship with them, I will thank them for whatever we were tied into and say, "Peace to you going forward and I hope you find happiness".
The only reason I do that is because I rather leave my mind clean and free of bad vibes dude.
We're done? Something happened that you think is unforgivable or I find off?

All good, thank you and good luck.
Anger is a choice. I don't like feeling it. I listen to it but very very rarely bother my phagocytes getting all het up.
Doesn't make me better and it doesn't mean I've never been wrong. I just don't want any more of that going forward so thanks and good night.
I was told recently that I have a fairly intimidating resting bitch face. I'm working on that. I sneer at myself in the mirror and practice looking sweet. There's and Irish musician called Sharon Shannon who's brilliant at smiling as she plays. Amazing skill.
Anyway, wills and breakups. Some show the real scary person they were all along. I hope you don't uncover one of these folks. But chances are you will.